Tribute by Ernest Hopkins, San Francisco AIDS Foundation, Director of Federal Affairs

My name is Ernest Hopkins and I am the Director of Federal Affairs for the San Francisco AIDS Foundation. I thank Keith's family, Housing Works and especially Charles for the opportunity to honor Keith and share my reflections on Keith's contributions to my life.

Since 1993, when we met at my first Cities Advocating Emergency AIDS Relief (CAEAR) Coalition meeting, we have been brothers, collaborators, instigators, infiltrators and agitators—with different styles—but always the same agenda.

Maureen Dowd reminded me on Sunday of one of Keith's greatest contributions to the AIDS movement. She asked the question in the context of the current situation in Iraq. Keith asked it in a myriad of ways about our fight against HIV/AIDS and a government that pays far too little notice of the disaster that surrounds us. The question is but while we try to turn them into us, who have we become?

For Keith, integrity was all.

It defined his advocacy and his life. He was the best of us and we celebrate his time with us.

Keith loved to strategize. That was something that we had in common. After an especially successful series of congressional visits on Capitol Hill—Keith would turn to me smiling and say… I want to be just like you when I grow up.

I would turn to him, smiling, and call him a choice name or two—since he was older—and the exchange would always elicit the same response from Keith. He would snap his head back—locks whipping the air and let out that howling cackle of a laugh—that for me—exemplified the freedom of spirit that I cherished so much in Keith.

When I got the early morning call from Gina Quattrochi that Keith was dead. I remember saying: "Oh Wow" my mind filled with memories of a week earlier in Miami on my birthday—our last time together. We spent the day together to celebrate—and celebrate we did. Accompanied by Mark McLaurin we spent the day on slow motion…

Talking, shopping, and debating—all broken up by lunch and pit stops for ice cream, or coffee or cocktails. We laughed at the stares 3 Black gay men received from locals as we strutted Lincoln Road. We walked the beach at sunset, bought Dominican cigars and CDs of the dance music that he loved.

At dinner we were joined by Patrick McGovern and debated the plight of Black Gay Men's HIV Prevention efforts and what could and should be done. During the debate, Keith played his favorite role… "Devil's Advocate" and proceeded to push all our buttons. He pushed until he was satisfied that the issues had been fully vetted. It was a game we had played many times before. I cherished the rigor of the debate, the quickness of his mind, the passion of his convictions and the strength of his commitment.

Keith contributed much to many—most of who will never know his name. And unfortunately the fights he fought are not resolved.

That is why Housing Works remains so important to us. And that is why I commit myself on behalf of the AIDS Foundation, the CAEAR Coalition and the National AIDS Housing Coalition families to keep the fight against HIV/AIDS, homelessness, poverty, discrimination against substance users, homophobia, racism and health disparities going until the war is won.

Keith, Rest My Brother

Job Well Done.

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